To Oprah: Thank You

Tonight I tuned into to the Golden Globes. I don't usually watch awards shows--even Twitter can't influence me to always participate in one of my favorite childhood pastimes. But tonight was different. I cut off the DVR recording of Rick & Morty reruns, and decided to see what was going on with all these gorgeous actors dressed in black. While I was at first dismayed because, "Who cares what rich white women are going to wear to celebrate white mediocrity while they remain rich, and I remain unemployed because my last boss didn't believe I deserved to be employed because black after he hired me over the phone?"

Excuse me while I lick my wounds.

I was inspired by some of the speeches tonight. Mainly Oprah's. The first black woman to receive the Cecil B. DeMille Award, Oprah stood on stage in one of the most gorgeous black dresses I've ever seen, and said some truly powerful things:

"In 1964, I was a little girl, sitting on the linoleum floor of my mother's house in Milwaukee watching Anne Bancroft present the Oscar for Best Actor at the 36th Academy Awards. 

She opened the envelope and said five words that literally made history, 'The winner is Sidney Potier.'

Up to the stage came the most elegant man I had ever seen. I remember his tie was white, and of course, his skin was black, and I'd never seen a black man being celebrated like that. And I've tried many, many, many times to explain what a moment like that means to a little girl, a kid watching from the cheap seats as my mom came through the door bone tired from cleaning other people's houses. But all I can do is quote and say that the explanation in Sidney's performance in Lilies of the Field, 'Amen. Amen. Amen. Amen.' 

In 1982, Sidney received the Cecil B. DeMille Award right here at the Golden Globes, and it is not lost on me that at this moment there are some little girls watching as I become the first black woman to be given this same award.

It is an honor, and it is a privilege to share the evening with all of them, and also with the incredible men and woman who've inspired me, who've challenged me, who've sustained me, and made my journey to this stage possible: Dennis Swanson who took a chance on me for AM Chicago, Quincy Jones who saw me on that show and said to Steven Spielberg, 'Yes, she is Sophia in The Color Purple,' Gail who's been the definition of what a friend is, and Stedman who has been my rock, just a few to name. 

I'd like to thank the Hollywood Foreign Press Association--because we all know that the press is under siege these days, but we also know that it is the insatiable dedication to uncovering the absolute truth that keeps us from turning a blind eye to corruption and to injustice, to tyrants and victims, and secrets and lies. I want to say that I value the press more than ever before as we try to navigate these complicated times. Which brings me to this: what I know for sure is that speaking your truth is the most powerful tool we all have. 

And I am especially proud and inspired by all the women who have felt strong enough, and empowered enough to speak up and share their personal stories. Each of us in this room are celebrated because of the stories that we tell, and this year, we became the story. 

But it's not just a story affecting the entertainment industry. It's one that transcends any culture, geography, race, religion, politics, or workplace. So I want tonight to express gratitude to all the women who have endured years of abuse and assault because they, like my mother, had children to feed and bills to pay, and dreams to pursue. They're the women whose names we'll never know. They are domestic workers, and farm workers, they are working in factories, and they work in restaurants, and they're in academia, and engineering, and medicine and science, they are part of the world of tech, and politics and business. There are athletes in the Olympics, and there are soldiers in the military. 

And there's someone else: Recy Taylor. A name I know, and I think you should know, too. In 1944, Recy Taylor was a young wife and a mother. She was just walking home from a church service she'd attended in Abbeville, Alabama, when she was abducted by six armed white men, raped and left blindfolded by the side of the road coming home from church. They threatened to kill her if she ever told anyone, but her story was reported to the NAACP where a young worker by the name of Rosa Parks became the lead investigator on her case, and together they sought justice. But justice wasn't an option in the era of Jim Crow. The men who tried to destroy her were never persecuted. Recy Taylor died ten days ago, just shy of her 98th birthday. She lived, as we all have lived, too many years in a culture broken by brutally powerful men. For too long women have not been heard or believed if they dared to speak their truth to the power of those men, but there time is up. Their time is up! Their time is up. And I just hope that Recy Taylor died knowing that her truth, like the truth of so many women who were tormented in those years and even now tormented goes marching on. It was somewhere in Rosa Parks' heart almost 11 years later when she made the decision to stay seated on that bus in Montgomery. And it's here with every woman who chooses to say #MeToo, and every man who chooses to listen. 

In my career what I've always tried my best to do, whether on television or through film, is to say something about how men and women really behave. To say how we experience shame, how we love, and how we rage how we fail, how we retreat, persevere, and how we overcome. 

I've interviewed and portrayed people who have withstood some of the ugliest things life can throw at you, but the one quality all of them seem to share is the ability to maintain hope for a brighter morning even during our darkest nights. So I want all the girls to know watching here and now, that a new day is on the horizon. And when that new day finally dawns, it will be because of a lot of magnificent many of whom are right here in this room tonight and some pretty phenomenal men fighting hard to make sure that they become the leaders who take us to the time when nobody ever has to say #MeToo again."

As to not sully the moment, I'm going to leave it here. I just want to solidify the moment more than in my mind so I'll have something to come back to. 

Thank you, Oprah.